You’re standing outside as a thunderstorm rolls in. The sky turns dark, wind pulls at your clothes, and lightning cracks open the sky. It’s terrifying — but you don’t look away. You’re glued to the moment, overwhelmed by the mixture of beauty, fear, and awe.
You’re lying on your back one summer night, staring into the black expanse of the universe. Stars flicker faintly above you. The deeper you look, the more infinite — and empty — it feels. A rush of wonder hits you, but so does a quiet, unsettling feeling: how small you are.
These are examples of what philosophers call the aesthetic experience.
Most of us associate aesthetics with paintings hanging in museums, the architecture of cathedrals, or the careful arrangement of flowers. This view, known as formalism, traces back to philosophers like Immanuel Kant, who focused on the form, beauty, and harmony of objects.
But this is only one side of the story.
Another view comes from the philosopher John Dewey. For Dewey, aesthetics isn’t just about objects, but about the experiences we have. It’s not only the painting, but how it moves you. It’s not just the thunderstorm, but how you feel standing under it.
Dewey described it beautifully when he wrote:
“...something of tremendous importance — a quarrel with one who was once an intimate, a catastrophe finally averted by a hair’s breadth. Or it may have been something that in comparison was slight — and which perhaps because of its very slightness illustrates all the better what it is to be an experience. There is that meal in a Paris restaurant of which one says, ‘that was an experience.’ It stands out as an enduring memorial of what food may be.” (Dewey, 1987)
The aesthetic experience is what happens when we are fully present, when we lose ourselves in the moment — whether it's listening to a story, watching waves crash against the shore, or tasting a meal that lingers in memory for years.
It’s not just about recognizing beauty. It’s about having an encounter so powerful that it changes how we feel, how we think, and sometimes even how we live.